Talk is important
My other half and I have been lacking a bit in the sack recently. We were trying to figure out why. He’d been doing some research on the matter because it became a problem for us. He suggested we talk candidly. Since it was only me that wasn’t getting my fill I thought it originally was his technique. He came up with a few ideas to spice it up one of them being an open relationship, or becoming swingers, the other was getting a third-party in who can show him a thing or two.