It’s challenge week 2 day 5
On challenge week 2 day 5, it has been a less than average day. My daughter has been particularly fussy (new teeth), her Daddy is particularly grumpy (cause he has to go back to work tomorrow), and I am particularly tired. This could be due to the lack of exercise, this could be because I didn’t sleep well last night. or it could be a combination of the two.
So about those free at home workouts…
I’m still working on those free PDF’s so please don’t fret too much, they are on their way. Combining life, with mumming and business is a constant up and down battle, but it needs to be fought to hit my goals. So even though it’s tiring, frustrating, often times mentally challenging, but simultaneously physically boring, it’s a battle I’m gonna continue to fight until I get what I want. Nobody said life was meant to be easy, and everyone says success is an upward battle. The more I resent it the less I will want to reach my goals.
Stop resenting your obstacles
Rather than seeing an obstacle as a punishment, I try to be grateful for my obstacles. These are lessons life throws at you, look into them, find out what they are trying to teach you and learn from them. It will be stressful at times, it will be hard, it will feel like you are missing out, but the end goal is worth it. There’s a fine balance, and you need to find it. Without happiness there is no success.
What are the obstacles I have had to navigate?
I am finding it particularly hard to keep my cool at the moment with my little one. She is going through a huge leap in her development and she is testing me, but I know these tests are nothing in comparison to the ones I will have to deal with when she’s older. I am finding it difficult to stay positive with everything that is going on in the world, I am questioning whether my daughter will have much of a future going the traditional way through life. What do I mean by the traditional way? Schooling, University, Job.
To be honest I don’t want her to end up with a J.O.B. working for ‘The Man’ helping somebody else make ridiculous money, while being paid a less than liveable wage. I don’t want her to be relying on ‘the system’. It’s broken it needs to be rebuilt from the ground up. I worry that she won’t even have an earth by the time she knows what earth is. It’s something that’s at the back of my brain every single day.
Every day I watch her grow up just a little bit more, understand another concept, take another step toward being a good human. Everyday I hear about another terrorist attack, another government fucking over it’s people, or someone else’s people. Another business exploiting people in need. How can I help her survive in this world? What do I need to do to ensure she doesn’t get exploited? Sometimes I feel in over my head.
Live in the moment
When I find I get inside my head, I have to remind myself to get out. Sometimes I look for some empowering quotes. These ones got me through today, especially the last one.
“When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.” – Winston Churchill
“Worrying is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it never gets you anywhere” – Erma Bombeck
“Don’t worry about the things you can’t control”
“Worry never robs tomorrow of it’s sorrow, it only saps today of its joy”. – Leo F. Buscaglia
So live in the moment, We can’t let worry sap the joy from today. We need to roll with it, take it as it comes, learn from our obstacles and be grateful for them. They are teaching us very valuable lessons and when you look back on them you will be thankful that you are here instead of on that rocking chair.
Time to Wind it up.
Well this has been an un-usually long winded blog post on challenge week 2 day 5. But let’s find those wins. Supplements? Yes. Shakes? Only one but still a Yes. Healthy meals? One still a Yes. Blog post? Yes. Worry free now? Yes.
It’s always the little achievements that will get you through.
I believe in you
X Ali X